本篇文章是与恋爱有关的，属于科普知识。慢速英语，语速正常。可以作为口译入门或基础英语听力口语听写的素材。大家快来挑战自己吧！
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Women certainly appreciate a grand gesture of love.
女生固然喜欢那些高姿态的表白。
You could buy your special lady some jewelry or a designer handbag to show her how important she is to you.
你可以为爱人买一些珠宝或名牌包包，以显示她对你有多重要。
But in reality, it’s the small things that count the most.
但实际上，那些微不足道的小事才真的让人印象深刻。
So save the grand gestures and expensive gifts for special occasions, because we’ve got some everyday alternatives that are not only more thoughtful, but will probably mean a lot more to her, too.
把那些隆重的仪式和昂贵的礼物留到特殊场合吧，实际上我们每天都可以做一些事情，这些事情会让女生觉得你很体贴，同时也倍受感动。
No matter her love language, these tips are surefire ways to show her just how much she means to you:
不管她如何表达爱意，用这些小技巧表达她对你的重要性是永远不会出错的：
Number 1 – Try to Remember Details When She tells You Things
第1条 当她和你聊天的时候，试着记住那些小细节。
Yes, she may talk in circles and perhaps takes too long to get to the point of a story.
是的，她可能会绕着圈子说话，可能会花很长时间才说到点子上。
But it’s up to you to be attentive or at least try to be, listen, and pick up on the important details.
但这取决于你是否在认真倾听，或至少试着这么做，用心倾听，记住那些重要的细节。
She might be telling you how annoyed she was when you left the toilet seat up again; or how she really enjoyed spending the day going hiking with you.
她可能会抱怨，你忘记盖上马桶盖的时候，她有多生气；或者她和你一起徒步旅行的时候，有多开心。
Either way, it’s important to take note of the small things.
无论什么内容，记住这些小事非常重要。
They’re little clues that you can use to improve your relationship.
这些小事能够帮助你改善你们之间的关系。
Number 2 – Communicate Your Feelings
第2条 沟通你们之间的感受
In the same way that it’s important to listen to her, it’s also important to communicate with her.
倾听她的意见很重要，同样与她沟通也很重要。
The good, the bad, and the ugly.
无论好坏的，丑恶。
Just be careful that your delivery and tone are appropriate so that you don’t offend or hurt her unintentionally.
要注意你的表达方式和语气，这样就不会无意中冒犯或伤害她。
解析在这里哦！
1.appreciate，动词，表示“欣赏”，比如：Anyone can appreciate our music.（任何人都能欣赏我们的音乐。）
2.alternatives，名词，单词原形为：alternative，表示“替代品”，比如：New ways to treat arthritis may provide an alternative to painkillers.（治疗关节炎的新方法可能会提供一种止痛药的替代品。）
3.surefire，形容词，表示“一定成功的”，比如：These products are promoted as surefire cures for various diseases.（这些产品被当作包治百病的良药来促销。）
4.unintentionally，副词，表示“无意中”，比如：They had unintentionally provided wrong information.（他们无意中提供了错误的信息。）
